My certainty that I am safe is unearned and undeserved. And so is the certainty of black men in this country that they are not.
Read moreFear, Guns and the Promised Land
We all spend time scouting our Promised Lands. The futures we want to have. The country and community and nation we want to live in. All of those futures are filled with great potential. Beauty. Bounty. And peril too. So how do we keep our fear from outspeaking, outshouting every other thing we can imagine or dream? How do we keep our fear from driving us to stupid decisions?
Read moreGrieving Orlando
And through all of that, we believed that by our labor and our suffering and our defiance we would make a better world for the young people who would come after us. That one day young people would be able to come out without fear of rejection; they'd be able to work in their chosen professions; they'd be able to live where they want and love who they want and be who they want. They could find love and even get married. And above all, they'd be safe.
Read moreIn the Wake
But we don’t as easily tune into our other ways of remembering. You see we are still riding the wake of the Shoah. We are still in the water, bobbing up and down.
Read moreBlessings and Bugs
It's funny how on a planet of 9 million species, we can so readily think of ourselves, and no other creatures, as the ones. As the Earthlings. Imagine how insulted we'd be if aliens finally landed and, calling out, "Hello Earthlings," they breezed right past us to speak with a rosebush.
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